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Wife was a friend of a friend of my roomate. Roommate had a friend who knew this girl from West Cola. He introduced us one time when she came to Clemson. She's a freshman and I'm a 2nd year sophomore. Roommates, friend of roomate and his GF, and this girl all decide to go to Charlie T's at the Seneca marina for karaoke night, plus they're open past 2am to boot. So we go, with this freshman girl being our DD. ALSO on the trip with us was another friend of my roomate and his live-in bisexual girlfriend he met online who left her husband and kid in NM and drove to Clemson to live with him. So there's like 7 of us. We drink beer all night, and get ripped. The crowd is a mix of locals and students, very eclectic mix. The beer flowed. We all got lit except for the freshman hawt DD.

ANYWAY, we were at a picnic table, and on one side was me, the hawt DD in the middle, and the girlfriend of roommate's friend, the bisexual freak from NM, on the far right. As the night wore on I noticed the hawt freshman DD was scooting closer and closer to me, she was practically hanging all over me. I knew this would be a good night. By the time we left she was practically in my lap and she talked to me the entire time, like close-talking. She drove us back to our apartment and we hooked up in the kitchen, and the rest is history.

Well, almost. Next day she comes by and says she feels embarrassed and wanted to tell me something. I'm like don't worry, no offense taken at your aggressiveness. Well, she then told me that the bisexual woman to her right at the table had been rubbing on her leg all night and whispered she wanted to take her home, etc. So naturally she recoiled, scooting to her left, and that's why she was practically in my lap and facing me and talking to me all night, because of the lesbian hitting on her to her right. She liked me and all, but didn't want me to have the wrong idea.

When we told this story of how we met to the pastor before the wedding, well, he laughed so hard he was rolling, literally.

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It took me three times before I remembered my wife.

Oct 26, 2021, 2:19 PM

The first time our paths crossed we were at a friend's house for a bonfire. I don't remember her, but she was there and remembered me.

The second time we met she was taking tickets at an MUSC function I attended w/ my roommate who was in dental school at the time (btw, those dental kids can gtf down...so just know your dentist is probably a former or active fiend). I seem to recall saying to my buddy the ticket girl was cute, but...that was about it.

The third time was St. Patty's Day. I had to choices -- head with my buddy to North Charleston for the festivities up there, or head with my other friends to Sullivan's. Not sure what pushed me to taken Option B, but best decision of my life. Lady Ot was down there, we were both kind of drunk, and I was firing on all cylinders game wise. I still remember coyly pulling down her sun glasses with the tip of my finger and boys, that was it. I was done.

We were supposed to all get up later in the day, but day-drinking does as day-drinking does, and I was out of action. I told my lady friend who was our mutual friend that I was going to ask her out, and she straight up told me, "She'll probably say no. I wouldn't do it. Just hang out together more." I ignored, asked, and received a positive yes.

Our first date was at Fuel, because it was literally across the church parking lot and I figured proximity is a major factor in getting her to come back for a night cap. My strategy was going to be show up slightly late and demonstrate my alphaness, but given Fuel was 30 seconds away, it didn't quite work and I got there just as she was pulling up. Later she said if I was late she would have bailed, so again, fate was working in my favor. A little of this a little of that later I asked if she wanted to go back and watch the Goonies (a movie everybody knows and enjoys but you don't exactly have to pay attention to).

Now, mind you...this is a beautiful, smart, A-type future pharmacist, who walks into this basic stranger's apartment with wires hanging down from the ceiling (our decision to hang the surround sound cables with duct tape on the ceiling was not a winner), reeks of skunk (*cough*), and I have this plant growing through my window from the outside (which I called My Nature). She ended up leaving at midnight. Actually, that's what she told our mutual friend. It was closer to 3AM.

We started dating immediately, but probably about a month or so in she tells me that she isn't sure if she wants a BF right now because after she graduated pharmacy school she wanted to do a residency out of state, and didn't want anybody messing with those plans. At the time I was not aware she was breaking up with me, but I told her she needed to figure out what she wanted but I was in if she was. About a week later she came around to her senses.

Celebrated five years of marriage this year. We have an amazing little boy. Couldn't ask for a better second chance at love.

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GITT and tell us where you met your wife or

The Genoa Club in 1994

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dude, I'm vaguely familiar that you live in Michigan.

samesies***

At the old house in the garage that was set up as a bar.

side note: Ever talk to someone who says "yeah, don't ask me

Let's have the parents story.***

Well, since you asked.

Surprised Folly Beach cops didnt call out the national

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Grew up together. My mother and her mother were teachers

7th Grade Science Class***

phteven?***

Didn't know you used to teach science***

That joke was already used

She's like a fine wine, and you're an egg salad sandwich***

Well that would be ............

Where did you meet chocolate?***

The bar at The Mellow Mushroom in ............

So you groomed your ex from age 5?

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I met her the old fashioned way: a website where you buy a

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Clemson House dorm room***

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It wasn't my room. It was her boyfriend's.***

I've always held to the belief that if someone will cheat

I don't disagree but we didn't start dating for a couple yrs

No.

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I swear this is how I imagine Crass

Tinder...then found out we went to the same church.

Do you guys have Tinderbabies?

Nah, took the bullets out of the gun long before I met her.***

Aww....She's a Tinderella.***

I joke with her that she was the worst one night stand....

Wait, who just died?

Looks like it was

Tenderoni***

Wrigley Mansion in PHX.

I still don't quite understand why you were at the mansion.

I am going to go against my own advice on replying to scoks

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I used to go to Addy's a lot. Still open I assume? ******

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Yep good food/beer. Couldn't wear my hat though. *******

Addy still owns it, but it's been closed for seemingly years

yep, last poast was 8/11

I'll do Bengaline's for him

Troo story

I really thought this would involve fetlife***

I'm pretty sure the chick from NM has a profile though.

What year was this? I was the kitchen manager

Clemson***

Be more specific...

I used to get really good pot in college. That's how

Tigerama 1980

In a day room

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Lee Hall***

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yep....

Only because they wait until 2 weeks left in the semester

The first time we met was right here

TIL McWifen is an Irish Traveler Gypsy***

Your realtor was Jeffrey Epstein?***

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So what are the best kept secrets that the cruise lines

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It took me three times before I remembered my wife.

So, out of nostalgia's sake,

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Yes, I immediately thot of her bc, you can't not

Same here... it's been a spell.***

I almost posted an update on #1.

Well that is kinda the idea and reason of getting divorced

I guess it depends on the circumstance.